I was listening to the audio book The Magic of Thinking Big by David J. Schwartz, Ph.D. – fabulous read – when I heard a fabulous story that became a reality for a client today.
The story goes like this. Each day a border patrol guard saw a man crossing the border with several donkeys. The guard would search all the packs certain the man was smuggling something. But, never found anything. This happened day in and day out for a month. Finally, the guard and the border crosser met up at a local tavern. The guard said “I know you were smuggling something. Will you finally tell me what it is and I promise not to report you.” “Sure,” the smuggler said. “I was smuggling donkeys. You were so busy looking for something the donkeys were carrying, it never occurred to you that it was the donkeys themselves I was smuggling.”
Your market, your target, your “next big thing” is hiding right in front of your eyes – in plain sight. But, if you are like most people, you are so busy focused on something else you miss it. There are many stories of how people made fortunes doing the obvious in books like Napoleon Hill’s Think and Grow Rich. Well, here is one of mine for a client.
I have the honor to represent one of the most successful attorneys in the country, Leonard A. Bellavia of Bellavia Gentile & Associates. They are one of the most well known and respected law firms representing auto dealers in the country.
Last year I organized a press conference in front of the Jacob Javits Center in New York City. Reporters from across the country and around the world attended. The topic was Auto Manufacturers that were terminating franchises as part of the Chrysler bankruptcy. The topic received extensive news coverage and you can watch a video of the press conference on You Tube.
Yesterday, a reporter from a major cable news station was in a Long Island dealership getting his car serviced. He began talking to the owner about how awful it was certain dealers had their franchises taken and now they are in arbitration to get them back. My client will now appear on national news again. Why? Because we know how to seize on opportunities right in front of us.
Why am I telling you this? I believe many, many people are missing great opportunities right in front of them. Let me give you a few practical ways to put this into action.
- Talk to strangers. The people at the grocery store, the hair salon, in the elevator may be just the person you want to reach. If you don’t find out who they are, how will you know?
- Make a list of all the people you know. Make sure that each one of them knows what you need or what you are looking for. How can they help you if they don’t know what you need? And, this isn’t about hard selling. It goes like this. “Have I mentioned to you that we have a $99 special on kids eyeglasses? Yeah, with summer camp season coming up we wanted to remind parents to get their kids an extra pair of glasses – just in case.
- Look around for clues to what you want and need. This is about staying in the present. I’m writing this entry on Friday so most people are thinking about setting themselves up for “next week”. That’s fine. But don’t miss the opportunities you may find today – just because it is Friday and people are more accessible, in a better mood, etc.
- The people you don’t know yet are your future clients or connectors to your clients/customers. Make it a point to get to know them now.
I’ll close with a real life “Duh” story of my own.
I went to a networking lunch and met Bill Nicoletti, President of Driven Local. He is a specialist – and one of the best – at creating successful Google Ad word campaigns. We made and broke numerous appointments for lunch over the next two months. Finally, I asked Bill if he played golf. He did and two days later we were golfing. You get to know a person in five hours on the golf course in a way you never could over five lunches. The opportunity for us to partner to help businesses is explosive. And, there it was, right under our noses. Never would have known if we hadn’t said hello and followed up. With follow-up being the most important part.
So, just who is that person standing next to you in line anyway?
